Monday, April 27, 2026

San Antonio Fiesta — April 2026

Link to more photos. (And see below for a separate photo album of Fiesta royalty.) As always, view the photos individually to see the captions.

I hadn't been to any Fiesta events since I was a kid, and Victor, of course, had never been. Also, Fiesta has grown quite a bit over the years. When I was young, I remember only two parades, the Battle of Flowers and the Flambeau. Now there's an additional nighttime river parade, a Band Fest, a carnival, and minor events.

Earlier this year, after successfully purchasing tickets for three parades and the Band Festival, I thought, "Now I only have to hope it doesn't rain." Alas, as we left L.A. for San Antonio, the forecast showed rain likely much of the week. Sigh.

Sure enough, the first event for which I had bought tickets ($35 each), the Monday night Texas Cavaliers River Parade, was canceled due to a flash flood warning just two hours before it was scheduled to begin. No refunds, either; the money goes to charity.

One block from our motel, at night, I saw multi-colored changing lights on freeway columns. (See the photos.) I discovered it was Light Channels by Bill FitzGibbons.

Despite the rain early in the week, at least the meals with friends would continue. On Tuesday, we had lunch with my cousin Rochelle and dinner with two friends. Similar outings on Wednesday and Saturday.

But on Saturday, Rochelle's son sent me a message that his mother died Friday morning! Apparently a stroke.

The Band Festival was entertaining. The finale had 4100 musicians from more than 40 high schools on the field playing together (see my 19-second video of that), followed by fireworks. Plus, my alma mater, Jefferson HS, won two awards. (Scroll down on this webpage to see the award winners.)

As we left the Band Fest, we experienced the first of two Uber refusals! I asked for Uber, and was notified of the driver and updated on his arrival. But when it said he would arrive in 1 minute, Uber suddenly said, "Searching for another driver" and we had to wait another 14 minutes! The same thing happened a few days later!

The Battle of Flowers parade began in 1891. It remains the highlight of Fiesta. Nowadays, it features a plethora of titled "royalty". The titles are pretty wild; here are a few: 

  • Duchess of Luxurious Textile Motifs
  • Duchess of Ornamental Supremacy
  • Duchess of Oceanic Synchronicity
  • Duchess of Panoramic Perfection
  • Duchess of Exemplary Urban Splendor
  • Duchess of Unconventional Resilience

Their gown trains are enormous, and these women are almost always wearing cowboy boots! Click here for a photo album (mostly from the Fiesta program book).

The Flambeau Parade is touted as "America's Largest Illuminated Night Parade". Another fun event.

The King William District is a Texas State Residential Historic District. At the end of Fiesta Week, they have a Fair, including a parade. This parade has some quirky entries -- lots of dogs, including the San Antonio Corgi Club, a Star Wars Society, a Roper Romp of orange-wigged women in kaftans mimicking Helen Roper from Three's Company. (I never heard of Mrs. Roper and had to look this up), and several gay-related groups. See the photos.


Tuesday, April 14, 2026

Las Vegas — April 2026

 

Link to more photos. (As always, view the photos individually to see the captions.)

We took a quick group tour to Las Vegas, mainly to see The Wizard of Oz at the Sphere. It was a bus trip, only two nights and one full day in Las Vegas.

It was raining as we left Los Angeles, but it stayed dry in Las Vegas and when we returned. We stayed at Paris Hotel and Casino, and had good views of the Eiffel Tower and, across the street, the Fountains of Bellagio.

In our short free time, we walked two blocks to view some of the art at Aria's Shops at Crystals. It was easy to see the Turrell work and the Treehouse Restaurant (see the photos) and a few others, but the Halo water feature I was looking forward to was not operating. Here's someone else's 40-second video of that.

Getting the bus parked and getting to our seats at the Sphere was a minor ordeal, but I did enjoy the re-mastered, AI-enhanced film on the 160,000 sq. ft. screen, complete with immersive multisensory effects like tornado wind, scents, moving seats, flying monkeys, and falling "leaves" and "apples". An apple fell right in my lap (see the photos).

Tuesday, April 7, 2026

Scammers

 

Although I've used craigslist before with no problems, I've now had two bad experiences, one as a buyer and one as a seller.

I previously wrote about the seller who was a fraud and cost me a large amount of money in 2024.

Now, a buyer has tried to cheat me. It was close, but I avoided this one:

Someone replied to a craigslist ad I posted, sent a large check so I could pay $2190 to the person who was going to pick up my item and transport it to another state. 

The buyer kept pushing to speed this all up, but fortunately, I waited long enough to see my bank reporting that the check was bad!

Thursday, March 26, 2026

Poetry Analysis


Early in my freshman English class at Rice, we were asked to write a brief analysis of a specific poem. Mine received a mediocre grade, and the grad student Teaching Assistant explained that I had completely ignored the obvious Christian religious symbolism.

Well, duh. Not being a Christian, it wasn't obvious to me. 

But that convinced me: for the rest of the semester, I adapted Cliffs Notes analyses and got better grades. 

And I took no further English courses.

Tuesday, March 24, 2026

Gay Club Matchbooks and Pins

 



Back in the day, I had this modest collection of matchbooks from gay bars and discos.

At the Los Angeles Central Library in 2018, I saw a display of similar matchbooks from ONE Archives. I wrote and asked if they wanted mine. They did, and I donated these.

I also gave them these gay pins and buttons:



Tuesday, March 10, 2026

Flowers — April 2024


 [I don't know why I didn't write this up at the time.]

Link to many more photos. Definitely worth viewing.

In April 2024, we went on a one-day tour to see flowers in northern San Diego County, specifically, at the Self-Realization Fellowship Meditation Gardens in Encinitas and the Flower Fields in Carlsbad.

The tour, Petals and Peace, from Good Times Travel, is no longer offered.

Click this photo to read the caption:



Sunday, January 4, 2026

Too many bowl games


I wrote this on Facebook recently:

My alma mater Rice lost a bowl game today. It's crazy stupid that a team WITH A LOSING RECORD even gets into a bowl game! That degrades all bowl games. Rice's season record was 5-7! After today's loss, 5-8! Clearly, there are WAY too many bowl games.

Later that day, I thought, "I should have sent it to the newspaper." So I sent it to the LATimes sports section. They did not print it.